How To Stop A Manipulator – To Thine Own Self Be True

How To Stop A Manipulator
Are you setting yourself up again? 10 things you need to know to avoid being hurt and disappointed.

 

Nobody, absolutely nobody likes being taken advantage of. But when you are foolish enough to set yourself up to be played for a fool by a fool, that’s taking clueless to a whole new level – especially when the fool who’s playing you is you. One thing is certain, love doesn’t love anybody. Nor does love come with any guarantees. Inasmuch, there are things you need to be aware of if you plan to keep your sanity while searching for Mr. or Ms. Right. Over priced internet dating sites, so called “match makers,” and hook ups from a friend all have one thing in common, unforeseeable peril. As you throw the dice hoping to get lucky at love, the odds are stacked more against you than for you. Making matters worse, just when you think you’re hedging your bets, more than likely you’re setting yourself up to be pimped like a tawdry sexworker. Be that as it may, there are things you can do to put the odds of purposeful dating back in your favor.

 

The underlying reason why we end up being taken advantage of while dating is because we put ourselves in a wobbly perplexed position from day one. Adding insult to injury, we don’t learn from our mistakes. Instead, we become more apathetic, and more combative in each subsequent relationship. In most instances, this over compensation leads to more failures than successes. It’s the psychological equivalent of going on a date with a machete in one hand, a gun in the other, while wearing a bullet proof vest and a football helmet. Who in their right mind is going to want to cozy up to you while you’re standing there looking like a damn fool as you proudly plant your flag in the sand.

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Dr. D. Ivan Young
Dr. D is the best-selling author of Break Up, Don’t Break Down and his latest work, Another Chance…Where would you be without one!. Also, he is President and CEO of Reality -N- 3D Publishing Inc., and a highly sought-after Life Coach and motivational speaker both in the U.S. and abroad.